What The Social Dilemma didn’t tell you — Unless you are living under a rock, you have heard of the social dilemma, the new documentary Netflix released about how social media is destroying our life, and a worldwide invitation to have a conversation about it. There’s been quite a lot of meditation before this story got written. And…

10 things I learned after starting my adult life with depression — I’m almost 25, and started getting depressive episodes at 19, got diagnosed by doctors at 22 and a half. Right now it’s been about 2 years and a half working towards getting better the fucking mess that had built up for 3 and a half years. You can’t do it all. Figure out your limits Recognizing and accepting one’s…

How I made peace with mum — Mom, Oh, how I wish I could send you this letter. And how I wish you could understand what I have to say. But I know that will never happen. I’ve tried time and time again to help you understand me. I took your hand and walk you through the…

And way harder to go through with than facing life — As a disclaimer: I’m coming out of a fairly deep depression where suicide was the main theme. This is by no means a tutorial on how to kill oneself, just an insight into what my mind went through during one of the hardest weeks of my life. This is meant…

Here’s why — I was scrolling down Medium and an article popped up “Daphne Bridgerton raped her husband and why it’s important to not romanticize it”. I quickly changed from my writing user to my reading user to click on it and read it. And I was astonished. …

Or how to claim your free time — Binge Watching has become our go-to activity when bored, when tired, when sad. The internet mocks how bad it can get by using it as a verb in articles called “5 TV shows to Binge-watch this weekend”. You might think this is an overdo, binge-watching is not that bad and…

Or how to draw the boundaries you need — We had just arrived from a seven-day hike in the forest. She was dirty, smelly, tired, and her feet hurt, so did I. We just wanted to shower, lay down, cuddle, and sleep. But, that isn’t what happened and you know it. We walked up the stairs and left (perhaps…

Is a perfectly organized mess For the first two episodes, we hate Sofie. I don’t think there’s anything else I’ve seen where I’ve been so completely unable to empathize with the main character. She is cold, ruthless, and despicable. Unable to understand the concerns of her daughter, annoyed by her…

And I like it. — This is not about men being intimidated by me, by my wealth (or lack thereof) nor because of my strength or because I’m bossy or successful. I have none of those attributes. I don’t even interact with men in a sexual manner (most of the time). …