Yes, I am needy

I need other’s acceptance.

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Photo by Felix Rostig on Unsplash
Not judging, but I am distrurbed by this story. It seems childish, irresponsible and narcissistic. No moral compass. No self-reflection. An careless, outward dependency on others for self esteem. Telling "a friend I havent seen for awhile I havent had sex for months," is just one example in this essay of some hidden issues Im afraid. Of course, I am old and so are my values.

When did depending on others for self-esteem become something bad?

Why do we feel anxious when we are isolated?

Being needy is not pathetic, it’s brave.

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If I become likable it will be a huge failure, it will mean I no longer shake you in any way, shape, or form. Pic courtesy of Christopher Campbell.

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